The time a guy waits before ejaculating is very different for each person and depends on their age, sexual experience, and body type. There is no one set or "ideal" length of time for physical activity. Most couples have penetrative intercourse for about five to seven minutes before they ejaculate, researchers have found. But different people have different ideas about what makes a sexual experience enjoyable. Couples may want shorter or longer periods, and the most important thing is that both of them are happy. Partners who talk openly about their wants, needs, and goals can help make sure that their sexual connection is fulfilling. In the end, both parties can have more fulfilling sexual experiences if they focus on pleasure, closeness, and connection instead of a set length of time.